Sandy Wallace discovered that many Christian authors give some advice or scriptures for troubled marriages; however, very few walk readers through the entire journey. She openly reveals her journey in which she acknowledges the numerous mistakes she made that resulted in painful detours along the healing journey from divorce.
One of her most interesting observations follows: The fact is that there is no relationship between the worst situations some have to overcome and their inability to heal or be happy. Healing [or divorce recovery] is a matter of choice, of work, not of past circumstances. The sooner we give our fears to God and trust him to handle each situation, the sooner we can make sound decisions.